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It was July 8th,2007.My family and I won't forfet that day.It was a harrawing day.It was my nephew's birthday. But it was also his  death.I lived in a country.The people in our country lover boys than girls.So after my sister-in-law  giving  birth to a girl .she wany to have another son. So they began their way of dodging the family planning.The ways are full of hardships.Everything comes to him who waits.After examination,they find they conceived a boy.My family got very happy.I thirsted for their son coming to this world earlier.then i will got disentangling.I think I was selfish.I want to cry.

But when I received my mother's day,i got despair.It was his birthday.but he got malady,and we couldn't cure him.we got very grief.I want to back home to meet him ,even if only one glance.but it is far from my home.it is my regret all my life.I know my family ,especially my brother and my sister-in-law,are very sad.I don't know how to do .I think I should leave somthing to consolated our hearts.and commemorate my lost nephew.Now I know I couldn't do whatever to save him.I hope he will be blessedness in the heaven. I should take on the duty to continue the XUE' .I love my home. I must work hard and make their life better and better.

五月五，是端阳。

门插艾，香满堂。

吃粽子，撒白糖。

龙船下水喜洋洋。

财政是爹,银行是娘,

工商税务两条狼,

电老虎,水阎王,

公检司法像流氓,

白衣天使黑心肠,

人民老师是蚂蝗,

就这也比政府强！

（看了比较有意思，拿来和大家分享）

1、不倾听，心不在焉，不问对方有兴趣或关心的问题。女人会以为他不表示关心而感受不到爱。

2、片面理解她的感觉，女人觉得他不理解她。

3、倾听，但因为她带给他难过而生气地责备他。女人会觉得他不尊重她的感受。

4、缩小她的需求与感觉的重要性。女人会认为他不突出她的特殊之处。

5、女人难过时，男人却解释自己为什么正确，以及她为什么不应该难过，或者他可能会说：别担心，这没什么大不了的。这样女人会觉得他没有认同她，又使她感到错误与不受支持。

6、倾听完后，什么也不说，或者只是走开，男人也许认为要给女人很多空间让他冷静下来，他的支持方式，却反而使她觉得自己微不足道，没有被爱，受到漠视。